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ADHD, Curiosity, and Evolution: Why Our Brains Don’t Always Fit Today’s World
All humans are curious, but ADHD brains are often more driven by novelty. These traits once helped us adapt and survive, but today they can clash with structured environments.

Matthew Hallam
Sep 254 min read


ADHD in Older Adults.Your Questions Answered: Symptoms, Challenges & Support
ADHD is a lifelong condition that continues into older adulthood, affecting focus, memory, and daily routines. Many older adults face challenges such as anxiety, social isolation, and confusion with dementia — but with the right support, they can thrive. Learn more about ADHD symptoms in later life and how Equal Psychology provides compassionate, evidence-based care.

Natalia Cajide
Sep 223 min read


Depression vs Sadness: How to Tell the Difference
Sadness is a natural response to stress or loss and usually fades with time. Depression is different. It is the brain’s protective state when life feels too heavy for too long, and instead of easing, it lingers and affects energy, sleep, and motivation. This post explains how to tell sadness from depression, how long low mood can last, and when to seek support.

Matthew Hallam
Sep 164 min read


ADHD and Environment: Why Support Is About Ramps, Not Willpower
ADHD isn’t simply a matter of willpower. The challenges often come from environments built for neurotypical brains. This article explores how changing context — at home, school, or work — can reduce barriers, prevent burnout, and help people with ADHD thrive.

Matthew Hallam
Sep 124 min read


ADHD and Anxiety: Why the Usual Advice Doesn’t Always Work
ADHD and anxiety don’t just add up—they interact. Traditional “face your fears” approaches can push you into burnout, not recovery. This blog explores the boom-and-bust cycle, perfectionism, and why regulation—not doing more—is the key to managing both.

Matthew Hallam
Sep 94 min read


The ADHD Productivity Trap - Why Trying Harder Isn't Helping
The ADHD productivity trap isn’t about not trying. It’s about trying so hard you burn out – then blaming yourself for not keeping up. Here's what to do instead.

Matthew Hallam
Sep 23 min read


The Five Remembrances: Living with Presence and Purpose
The Five Remembrances are simple, timeless reflections that remind us of life’s fragility and beauty. As I listened to them recently, I found myself pausing to reflect on illness, death, and change — and in doing so, I discovered a deeper sense of purpose and intention. They are not heavy truths, but gentle invitations to live more fully in the present and closer to what matters most.

Natalia Cajide
Aug 273 min read


ADHD and Motivation: Why Interest—and the Right Context—Matter
Why do people with ADHD sometimes thrive in the right environment, only to struggle in others? Research shows that motivation isn’t about willpower—it’s about how the ADHD brain responds to reward and genuine interest. Discover why strategies alone aren’t enough, and how reflection and self-understanding can make support more sustainable.

Matthew Hallam
Aug 262 min read


Embracing Retirement: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Growth
Discover how retirement psychology helps you redefine life beyond work. Learn to use your strengths to build purpose, joy, and resilience in retirement.

Natalia Cajide
Aug 204 min read


ADHD Support - What If Your ADHD Isn't the Problem?
What if ADHD isn’t a problem to fix, but a brain to understand? This blog reframes common ADHD struggles — from procrastination to overwhelm — as signs of a system needing a better fit, not more effort. Backed by science and written with compassion, it invites a shift from blame to insight.

Matthew Hallam
Aug 193 min read


What Is Brainspotting Really Doing? A Look at the Brain, Body, and Healing
What Is Brainspotting Really Doing?
Brainspotting is a powerful therapy that works beneath words — helping the brain and body process stuck emotions, stress, and trauma. In this post, we unpack the science behind it in everyday language: what trauma really is, how memories get stored in the body, and why healing often continues long after the session ends.

Matthew Hallam
Jul 115 min read


Anxiety or Intuition? Learning to Tell the Difference
Anxiety or Intuition? Learning to Tell the Difference
Anxiety and intuition can feel surprisingly similar—but they come from very different places. This blog explores how to tell them apart by tuning in to your body’s signals, building awareness, and making choices that support both safety and growth.

Matthew Hallam
May 134 min read


When Safety Feels Stuck: Recognising Protective Patterns That No Longer Serve
When Safety Feels Stuck:
We all have patterns that once helped us feel safe - but over time, those same patterns can start to hold us back. This blog explores how protective habits form, why they’re hard to change, and how to gently move forward when safety starts to feel like stuckness.

Matthew Hallam
May 74 min read


Understanding Self-Medication Patterns: Beyond Quick Fixes
Research reveals how self-medication patterns start as self-care attempts. Understanding this helps create sustainable positive change.

Matthew Hallam
Apr 304 min read


Supporting Someone with Anxiety: Understanding the Balance of Care
"Research shows the power of balanced support - being present while letting others find their path helps create lasting positive change.

Matthew Hallam
Apr 234 min read


Breaking Free From Anxiety Patterns: What Current Understanding Tells Us
New research shows how understanding our protective patterns creates pathways for change, while respecting our need for safety.

Matthew Hallam
Apr 164 min read


The Comfort Zone Paradox: Understanding Growth and Safety in Anxiety
Growth happens at the edge of comfort, not in overwhelming challenge. Research reveals how balancing safety and small steps creates lasting

Matthew Hallam
Apr 94 min read


Understanding Your Brain's Protective Patterns: What Science Tells Us
Your brain's protective system keeps you safe, but sometimes works overtime in modern life.

Matthew Hallam
Apr 54 min read


Navigating the Mind: Unveiling the Dual Process Model of the Human Brain
The human brain is a marvel of complexity. It balances rapid responses and deliberate thought to navigate life efficiently. This balance...

Matthew Hallam
Jan 194 min read


The ADHD Brain: Understanding the Complexity of Procrastination
Procrastination is frequently mistaken for laziness or a lack of willpower, but for individuals with ADHD, it is far more intricate. It’s...

Matthew Hallam
Dec 17, 20246 min read
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